How to find happiness? Ayurveda believes ‘Sattva’ as the secret of happiness. When the mind is in the state of Sattva, it is calm and peaceful, you enter the state of untainted, pure happiness. So what is it that you must do to attain the coveted state of Sattva? It is simple, you do not […]
How to Meditate when you just can’t Meditate
You may not have neuropathy yourself, or the type of neuropathy that causes severe pain. Yet, you may relate to the challenge of sitting to meditate when your body is wired and tense, or when you just don’t feel great. This can be extremely frustrating, especially when you’re a yogi. When my nervous system went […]
being alone never felt right…
…sometimes it felt good, but it never felt right. ― Charles Bukowski, Women
Breaking Up with Busy
Yvonne Tally was doing what she does most mornings—putting on her makeup. She was about to walk out the door to do what she normally does, teach Pilates, wellness and healthy-eating classes to clients desiring a calmer, more fulfilling and longer life. But she didn’t make it out the door. At least not on her […]
I had already found that it was not good to be alone, …
…and so made companionship with what there was around me, sometimes with the universe and sometimes with my own insignificant self; but my books were always my friends, let fail all else. ― Joshua Slocum, Sailing Alone around the World
Saudade: the untranslatable word for the presence of absence
Saudade is a key emotion word for Portuguese speakers. Though akin to nostalgia or longing, the term has no direct equivalent in English. As the Brazilian musician Gilberto Gil sings in ‘Toda saudade’, it is the presence of absence, ‘of someone or some place – of something, anyway’. One can have saudades (the singular and […]
If you’re lonely when you’re alone, …
…you’re in bad company. ― Jean-Paul Sartre
True happiness vs temporary pleasure
In recent decades thousands of books and countless articles and research reports have been published exploring the essence of authentic happiness and myths related to it. One such myth is that money brings happiness. In fact, there is no scientific and proven positive correlation between money and happiness; multiple research studies have shown that an […]
Lost in Solitude
In Leave No Trace, isolation bonds a father and daughter—and drives them apart The brokenness of life is almost unbearable in Leave No Trace, a movie inspired by a true story. Will (Ben Foster) and his daughter Tom (Thomasin McKenzie) live in the woods of a large public park near Portland, Ore., hiding from discovery […]
I care for myself. The more solitary, …
…the more friendless, the more unsustained I am, the more I will respect myself. ― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre
How to Create Greater Meaning and Purpose in Our Daily Lives
Sometimes we can learn very helpful life lessons from unexpected places. I had an interesting conversation with one of my nieces about her acting class, and began thinking about how the skills she is working on there might apply to all of our lives. She was sharing with me how she is learning to (1) […]
Solitude is fine…
…but you need someone to tell that solitude is fine. ― Honoré de Balzac